Journals: a Simple Yet Effective Approach to Achieving Your Goals

You suck at achieving your goals.miss a writes a song 580x435 Journals: a Simple Yet Effective Approach to Achieving Your Goals

(And so do I).

We spend all our time thinking about our goals, waiting for the perfect moment to take action on them…

…But we rarely do.

That’s our problem.

We think, we wait, we think, we wait… But taking action, especially “meaningful” action, is a struggle.

Our “action muscles” have wasted away, and it’s up to us to bring them back.

But the question is – how?

There’s a simple way to take action on goals

It happens to all of us.

You’re sitting at your desk looking at an empty document page and you have no idea where to start.

You’re waiting…

…Waiting for something, anything to get you going.

What does this waiting get you? Nothing, zero, zilch.

Here’s a familiar scenario -

You’re at home, lounging around on the couch. Your only goal is a nice, clean house. You can picture a room without piles of dirty clothes in the corner. You can envision dishes that are clean and put away.

But the problem is, all you’re doing is imagining a clean house. You’re getting lost in the vision of a sparkling clean home, and before you know it you’ve wasted your last day off doing nothing.

This is what we do.

We wait. We think. We imagine…

…But rarely act.

What do we do about it?

Here’s how you take action and stick with it

Our main problems with lack of action on goals come from two sources:

  1. Thinking too much
  2. Waiting (usually for the perfect moment)

We need to gear our actions towards things that help to prevent that. So what I recommend is this, stick with a…

Day by day focus

How does this help?

Firstly, restricting our thoughts to what needs to happen that day will help us from getting lost in the fantasy of our goals.

If you’ve ever imagined yourself in the future and you’re richer/more successful/done achieving some goal, and find that you’ve wasted hours doing so, then…

…this advice is specifically for you.

Okay, so a day by day focus. What now?

Simple.

All you need are two things:

  1. A journal
  2. A task list

It might sound strange, but hear me out.

Journal entries are by their very nature a “present” focused activity.

How do you feel “now?”

What do you want to do “now?”

What do wish you’re life was like “now?”

See what I mean?

Journaling connects your thoughts and feelings to the exact moment you’re writing it. This keeps your focus right where you want it, now.

So now that we’ve got your attention in the right place, what now?

The task list.

Right.

It’s probably obvious, but the task list keeps your focus on what you need to do that day. It’s job is to keep you laser focused so you can stick with your goals and make good use of that day.

“But I never stick with task lists!” you say.

Think again.

The beauty of this method lies in the synergy between the journal and task list. Journaling infuses your emotions and wishes into the task list. It gives them a meaning that’s both personal and present-focused.

At the risk of looking silly, I’ve got a personal entry as an example:

“So yesterday ended up being pretty lazy.

At least I finished the most important thing, part of my guest post. But I didn’t finish the movies or take Bogie (my dog) to doggy school… But that’s okay. It’s not the end of the world I guess.

So what today then?

Well, let’s see if I can finish that guest post today. That’s the most important thing. I also want to update my Hire Me page. My new copywriting skills should allow me to make it a bit better.

I’ve been working hard on them, I really hope I can make them work!

I also need to start marketing more. I know its really important but I neglected it because I really really wanted to finish my guest post. I mean, I plan on making that my main marketing method. I want to be everywhere that way.

It’ll make me feel really good if can finally submit that guest post though!

So, the task list is:

  1. Finish at least part 7 and closing thoughts of my guest post.
  2. 30 mins of commenting on other blogs
  3. 30 mins of updating Hire Me page (at least 30)

That’s all I got for now, but those are the most important things.”

When I got to the task list, it didn’t feel like something I had to do. It felt like something I wanted to do.

I laid my emotions and goals out before I created my task list. When I got there, it simply became a reflection of my desires, increasing the significance it.

My ability to take action has soared because of this.

Now it’s your turn…

What do you think of this method? Is it smart? Dumb? What do you think is a good way to stick with your goals?

Please leave a comment below and let me know!

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Comments

  1. How does journaling works exactly? How often do you have to write? Which free tools do you recommend?

    • Hi Dan,

      The concept behind journaling is simple: write about your thoughts, feelings, observations, and goals.

      To get the most out of journaling, I suggest doing it every day. If all you’ve got is a sentence to say, then that’s all you need to write down.

      The one Harry listed here in the comments is pretty good, but I just use evernote. I made a folder and called it journal, and use it for all the things I said to write about earlier.

      (Sometimes I add entries to evernote from my phone, pretty cool).

      It really doesn’t matter what you use though, so long as you find it easy to use.

      (Even old fashioned pen and paper is good).

      Thanks for asking!
      Ericson Ay Mires recently posted…The warrior poet: 5 smart reasons this mindset will defeat procrastination once and for allMy Profile

  2. Journaling is a great way to keep track and focus on goals. Great advice.

    You may want to check out http://www.GoalsOnTrack.com/, a very nicely built web app designed for tracking goals, habits, and todo lists, and supports time tracking, and keeping goal journal too. It’s clear, focused, easy to navigate, and most of all, really works!

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